The classical idea, the thought and the strategy that
people often live with in general looks like this:
oh, there are no guarantees,
so I’m not doing it,
I will not make this decision.
There are no guarantees that
I will marry this man and that he will
provide me for the rest of my life
and won’t leave me for someone younger,
that's why I do not trust him.
And then we stand still and work
out this very conservative scenario.
If it suits you, ok,
but sometimes we want something more.
And this means taking a risk.
So now take your piece of paper
and look at your situation.
There are the so-called benefits,
implicit or explicit,
and there are potential risks.
So the ability to take responsibility for these risks,
the ability to face those bruises that you
will get - and you will, for sure - there
will be bumps on your way whatever you
choose as your profession, predestination,
or any hard strategic decision that you will take,
it will certainly be accompanied by a large number
of tasks, risks, potential problems on the way.
And our task is to accept the fact
that they will surely happen and it is
perfectly normal that you will face them.
They say: "That place is best of all where we
haven't been at all", but, where we are now,
we must honestly admit that
we will have to solve all these
problems and tasks.
So, what is our next step?
In your head, once and for all, make an association:
больше ответственности, то бишь responsibility,
more responsibility, the ability to respond,
gives us more freedom of choice. More freedom.
So, the more responsibility, the more freedom.
This association, it should become a part of you,
if you want to be able to choose your predestination,
you must take responsibility for any potential
difficulties that will arise along the way.
If you want a family,
you need to consider the “whole set”,
you know, screaming children,
hysterical wife,
increasing expenses.
And so you look at this and think: "Oh my
God ...", another state should awaken in you.
All this is for me.
This is my challenge,
these are the tasks that I will be solving till I drop.
This is a mature decision-making,
when you say: "Yes, I've found a new job!
Are there any guarantees?
Of course, there aren’t. It may turn
out that you will have to knock on 100 doors,
collect all possible problems, all bumps,
, only to consistently deal with them.
This problem is
just another task on my way.
Let’s call it a "mature decision."
As an expert in the process of searching for the
"predestination" and helping you in
self-realization, I can say that this is a
fundamental problem, a mental block.
A huge number of people
are engaged in all sorts of nonsense and are not
ready to invest in their own personal growth for one simple reason.
They are afraid of these risks and believe that
there should be a guarantee coupon. They are
waiting for guarantees on their way
and won’t take the first step without them.
This state, when the decision is not taken,
the fear of bumps, they
will be holding you back.
And that's why these are the fundamentals of our course,
you should keep them in mind once and for all.
It’s the answer to the question - who makes the decision?
And who wants - let me stress
that - who wants the whole set of
problems that follow afterwards?
Who wants to hush a crying baby,
take care of a wife, and so on?
Who wants to run around the market looking for fresh meat,
who wants to run around with a resume looking for a dream job?
Who wants the risks and problems that
a young businessman may have.
And of course the answer is - me.
I choose and draw the trajectory of my life myself.
If you can take it with you after this video
course, it will be so much easier for you.
So now look into your notebook,
at your situation, where there are pros and cons.
You need to learn how
to use the scales in your mind.
On the left, you have the pros,
on the right - the cons.
Look at them, weigh them. And as soon as the
decision is taken, embrace all the minuses, smile
Now you can say: Yes, I knew. Yes, I thought so.
Yes, I am ready for these problems.
Yes, come here, let’s work it out,
this is the path I chose.
This is what a responsible open-minded behavior
looks like. Expand your responsibility.
Take more responsibility at work,
in your career, in a relationship.
Why does my wife cry? I’m responsible for that.
Solve this problem and then you are
free to do whatever you want.
Why am I in this country? Because I decided so,
it is my responsibility.
I am free to move to another country,
find a new job, start a new business,
I'm free to be myself.
It is a luxury to be yourself
and you need to expand the area of your
responsibility to become really free.
Good luck.