Okay, so what I'm hearing is as circumstances change, the ability to really be compatible actually changes too. So, we don't just start off compatible and always stay compatible without essentially finding ways to deal with the changing life events in our relationship. Is that right? >> Yeah, I think you have actually got to the key point in this. Yes, of course like circumstances change right? If you imagine how a lot of like love stories start, right? You know You have like a couple met in college, and then like back then they we're like very compatible, because life circumstances is pretty similar and then aspiration, social cycle and values and stuff. But then as they move on in life like there can be significant career changes that might even require resettling in another country for instance. There may be changes like in a person's family circumstances and you may have like a family member or an aging parent that you may need to take care of. And then people's value can also change, you may have like people who were sort of like politically very compatible, and they are in college and as activist, you know, more left-leaning and after 10, 12 years, they may be still politically together or they might have gone very different pathways, right? So, yeah, things do change. So what it comes down as it's like when circumstances change, right, our needs will change, right? And even who we are like characteristics like values, politics, you know, might change. And then the key challenge then is like how capable, what capacity do we have to deal with these changes. And the other thing of course is are we really interested in dealing with the changes. So I think that would be like a personal characteristic. Some people would say no, I don't really want to do a lot of work here. When something is making me uncomfortable, I'll just leave and go on to another relationship, right? For some people they are actually interested in understanding the differences. They may be interested in negotiating like a new way to work with those differences. And one of the things makes all this discussion sort of like not easy is that because relationship is not just something that is affected by changes. Relationship, we believe, like in SSLD, we do believe if you are good at managing, building a relationship. The relationship itself can be an agent of change. The relationship can cause change. Some people actually they find a personality change, their value system changes, and when they're in a good relationship and they grow, and you know, they become better person. Yeah, and so we do not just look at like how this changes and compatibility or impacting the relationship. We are also hoping that we will be learning skills and developing capacities to deal with differences, to express ourselves more effectively, to try to appreciate the other person better and try to negotiate and find creative, innovative ways of being together. So that is I think the SSLD dream.