4.7 Compatibility: Circumstances

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The Arts and Science of Relationships: Understanding Human Needs

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The Arts and Science of Relationships: Understanding Human Needs

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This course provides an introduction to: 1. Basic concepts of The Strategies and Skills Learning and Development System (SSLD), their relevance for every day relationships and provide advanced concepts for participants who work in fields of social work and health care . 2. Basic practice principles and methods of SSLD, illustrated by relationship management case studies. 3. The SSLD framework for relationship management assessment; N3C (needs, circumstances, characteristics, capacity) and problem translation. 4. Core competencies in the relationship management application of the SSLD system: Observation learning, simulation, real life implementation, review and monitoring.

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Module 4 - Building Relationships that Work for You

This module addresses relationship building based on communication, reception, and expression skills learned in Module 3. Additional topics on relationship problems will also be discussed.

4.6 Compatibility: Needs4:22

4.7 Compatibility: Circumstances2:54

4.8 Compatibility: Characteristics & Capacity4:19

4.9 Compatibility, Differences and Changes3:14

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A. Ka Tat Tsang
Founder of the SSLD System; Professor and Factor-Inwentash Chair in Social Work in the Global Community
Factor-Inwentash Faculty of Social Work

Okay, and then, when you're talking about the changing of needs,

a lot of that time, it applies to circumstances, right?

The first C of the N3Cs.

So how does circumstances and compatibility fit in together?

>> Yeah, this is a very good question because very often,

when we think of needs,

we think of them as something that is stable that pertains to the individual, right?

But when you bring in circumstance, then you see the interesting

interaction between the person and the circumstances.

Say for example, I work a lot with the immigrants.

When someone comes from a different country to a new country,

circumstances change.

And because the circumstances change, right, a person's needs may also change.

So say for example that someone is a respected

scholar from South Asia coming to Canada and

then cannot find a job in a respectable university here, alright.

So, the person's need for esteem, for respect, for social recognition

was actually very adequately met when he was back in his home country.

And then he obviously didn't experience a strong need for those, alright?

But after coming here, all of a sudden, you're in a new set of circumstances,

and the means for gratifying those needs have disappeared.

Then you will be looking forward to situations in

which you can have your need for esteem, need for recognition, gratified.

So, and before this person even realizes,

Like his relationship style might have already changed.

And he is all of a sudden seeking more approval, more recognition,

in his intimate relationship than before, right?

And then if the partner is not aware,

because like the partner might have his or her own needs as well, right?

Then the circumstances can actually create a challenge for the relationship.

And then you can easily think of other circumstantial challenges, like say for example, a car accident,

or someone who suddenly got laid off, right?

or an acute illness.

All these changes in circumstances can obviously impact on the partner's

needs and also on how they deal with the relationship.

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